To be clear, I wasn't trying to defend Gordon - I think a player decommitting from a program (in basketball) is a really crappy thing to do, given that coaches hold spots and structure their recruiting strategy about that player being there. And conversely, I think a coach telling a player he has an offer and then pulling that offer is an equally crappy thing to do, given that a player will plan his future around that offer. But I agree, the way Gordon strung us along was unforgivable.
As to Palmer, I didn't bring that up, fear did. I honestly have no idea what happened with Palmer, and I've always suspected it was something to do with academics. Whether or not Bruce pulled the rug out from under him or not, I have no idea. I will say that it there were no academic problems, to remove the scholarship offer is a really crappy thing to do, and if he did it on signing day with no warning (and there were quotes from Palmer's camp that they were expecting that letter to be faxed over that day) then that's as bad as what Gordon did. I think if you're going to pull the trigger on a kid at any point, and extend an offer, and if the kid takes the offer, that's that. If it doesn't work out, well, that's the price for making the offer early. It goes both ways.
Now, I will say if the coach were to be honest with the kid and say "Look, we promised you an offer, and it's still on the table, but you're going to need to work really hard to have a shot at playing" that's fine, but don't take away the offer just because the kid didn't develop like he thought you would (just like a kid shouldn't decommit just because the coach didn't fill a class with other players like thought he would).
QUOTE (illini2003 @ Nov 20 2009, 02:35 PM)

Great, its a disgusting approach. So answer my original question, what do you suggest he should have done with David Palmer? Honor the committment, sit him on the bench, and wait for him to transfer? Who does that benefit? How is that any better than cutting him loose? In Weber's own words, he admits he worries about having to go back on his word, he trys to avoid it whenever possible. Thats why he works so hard on the recruiting trail to try and avoid the situation all together.
As to Eric Gordon, and I'll only speak for myself, Gordon strung the Illini and Coach Weber along, telling them that he is solidly committed, nothing to worry about, etc. If one of our recently committed recruits comes out today and says, "you know what, I'm having second thoughts about my committment, I'm reopening my recruitment.," I would certainly not be happy, but I think I would understand and not have the same animosity as I hold towards EG and his family.